tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post1511918943559572841..comments2023-09-04T14:45:47.026+02:00Comments on Living the Cramerican Dream: The Twilight ZoneCazhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11612645274970749043noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-45551524432928763172009-09-28T13:58:22.732+02:002009-09-28T13:58:22.732+02:00I'm so glad you are blogging about all these i...I'm so glad you are blogging about all these incredibly hard things, Caz. I think it's good to express how you're struggling and what you're feeling and I admire your courage in this murky, dark space. I think it's therapeutic, but that there will also be women who read these posts and know they're not alone in one of the hardest things that can happen to anyone. Hugs!Tamarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13875207633073348136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-10451391090921619892009-09-27T17:31:20.125+02:002009-09-27T17:31:20.125+02:00thanks guys xthanks guys xCazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11612645274970749043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-39219603878984402132009-09-26T14:56:01.116+02:002009-09-26T14:56:01.116+02:00We are all thinking of you lots and lots, only the...We are all thinking of you lots and lots, only the other day whilst watching brothers and sisters, my stomach lurked and I thought of you and the band. Hugs and more hugs xJohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17266224262968605361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-39828933379412484842009-09-26T09:57:08.441+02:002009-09-26T09:57:08.441+02:00It's terribly awkward. If people ask me, even ...It's terribly awkward. If people ask me, even now, if it's my first baby I say no. It was difficult to talk about in the beginning, but it did get easier. <br /><br />Now I can talk about Jamie and acknowledge her without turning into a puddle. Sophia Grace is your daughter, you are her mother. Nothing can ever take that away from you or change that. <br /><br />I totally understand how you can feel like you're not really a mother because you don't have a living child. I struggled with that for a long time too. You will find though that people (especially women) will acknowledge your motherhood, with or without your baby.<br /><br />Nothing worse than giving birth and leaving the hospital empty handed.<br /><br />*huggles*acidicicehttp://www.acidicice.co.zanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-47101970078069817192009-09-25T22:11:06.015+02:002009-09-25T22:11:06.015+02:00Tihs sort of void can't be a very happy place ...Tihs sort of void can't be a very happy place to be. Hang in there.Bruce Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10898228670873232050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-50269494127950460392009-09-25T21:32:11.152+02:002009-09-25T21:32:11.152+02:00Hey Caz, I hate those "unanswerable questions...Hey Caz, I hate those "unanswerable questions." I still haven't figured out a good answer when people ask me about how many siblings I have, and my brother died 8 years ago. I feel like if I am honest I will shock and put people in an awkward position, so I lie and pretend I never had a brother. It makes me feel awful. I had a brother and I don't want to pretend otherwise.<br /><br />Maybe you should just tell people the truth. You have a right to your pain, to announce it. People should know what you are dealing with, if they are around you. You want to remember her and lying just feels awful. <br /><br />I don't know, both options are awkward. Am thinking of you.pohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00711119384786965311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-20460555862703204822009-09-25T19:22:31.966+02:002009-09-25T19:22:31.966+02:00The twilight zone indeed. I wish I had some profou...The twilight zone indeed. I wish I had some profoundly wise words for you. I dont. May His peace enfold you and His grace be sufficient for what each day brings you. xxxMelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01682621214434542008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-58169780445320518532009-09-25T15:39:02.653+02:002009-09-25T15:39:02.653+02:00This is indeed a tight spot. Hugs to you.This is indeed a tight spot. Hugs to you.Mrs. Hallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15360433416733092249noreply@blogger.com