tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post555732061600574236..comments2023-09-04T14:45:47.026+02:00Comments on Living the Cramerican Dream: Crossing the voidCazhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11612645274970749043noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-6303548442568676912009-09-19T12:36:34.895+02:002009-09-19T12:36:34.895+02:00thanks guysthanks guysCazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11612645274970749043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-6451793323695969702009-09-18T21:08:13.933+02:002009-09-18T21:08:13.933+02:00I just returend from an extended absense so I am s...I just returend from an extended absense so I am still catching up. Reading back through the past several posts, my jaw sort of dropped. I recalled that Sophia Grace was on the way, but didn't pay a lot of attention. Expecting mothers post about the most bizarre things, and like so many others I have known, I assumed everything would be fine. I was looking forward to your post delivery on motherhood, but alas, that obviously won't be happening. I can't offer words of solice....I don't have any that are deep enough or profound enough. The only thing constant in life is change and you just endured more than most people get in decade. The hurt will fade, albeit very slowly. <br /><br />While it is a poor bandaid.....at times like this, a kitten never hurts.Bruce Johnsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10898228670873232050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-35669714232408897912009-09-18T09:18:25.352+02:002009-09-18T09:18:25.352+02:00The tattoo is a lovely idea.
Nothing can help, bu...The tattoo is a lovely idea. <br />Nothing can help, but somethings will make it less hard. <br /><br />Kittens bring joy in small ways. :)Lifeofkaylenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03470854343779969623noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-66873294959092410272009-09-17T09:39:45.436+02:002009-09-17T09:39:45.436+02:00hey caz - i sent you a message on facebook. hope y...hey caz - i sent you a message on facebook. hope you got it! thinking of you sooo much, and is really happy to see how positive you are. great stuff! let me know if you change your mind about the kitten and rather want to opt for a ridgeback - i've go the number for a great breeder ;)loesilnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-8104864704958648272009-09-16T22:16:07.404+02:002009-09-16T22:16:07.404+02:00I love the idea of her name tatooed on your wrist....I love the idea of her name tatooed on your wrist. whave a lovely way to remember her. i hope the memorial goes well. big hugs.In With the Lighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06291171798172522112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-87363967547270724312009-09-16T11:54:56.810+02:002009-09-16T11:54:56.810+02:00Praying for good weather for your memorial, that y...Praying for good weather for your memorial, that your body will heal soon and for people in your life that can penetrate that void of loneliness.<br /><br />Thank you for sharing your heart's deepest ache.<br /><br />I think the tattoo is brilliant. I'm also convinced that kittens help us heal. Maybe have a look at http://www.petspower.org.za/index.html. It's an animal rescue organisation in Helderberg.Tamarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13875207633073348136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-63018143262041381912009-09-16T07:25:13.434+02:002009-09-16T07:25:13.434+02:00{hugs} Caz - just want you to know that you are of...{hugs} Caz - just want you to know that you are often in my thoughts and I've been praying for you and the Band.<br /><br />Love the idea of the tattoo. I'm sure it will be an enormous comfort to you.Gillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14910101541494674555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-69063188094165552732009-09-15T23:44:11.456+02:002009-09-15T23:44:11.456+02:00The tattoo is a fabulous idea. I just had one don...The tattoo is a fabulous idea. I just had one done - it's not as obvious as a name, but I know what it is and each time I see it I remember who it is for.<br /><br />Thinking of what S would want for me has also helped a lot. At times I personally didn't care if I spent the rest of my life on the couch in my pyjamas watching tv, but I know S would want and expect so much more from me. The strength to get up doesn't come from him, it comes from me. It's in me, but sometimes it's easier to reach it by saying I'm doing this for him (or for her) and not for me.<br /><br />Another thing I learned is that you don't have to be ok all the time. Sometimes you need to not be ok for a while. Don't beat yourself up when those times come. Never apologise for how you feel, because no one but you can truly know what you are going through.<br /><br />So much love to you and the Band Caz...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-72504054942905469662009-09-15T20:08:29.116+02:002009-09-15T20:08:29.116+02:00Caz I think the idea of the tattoo is awesome.
D...Caz I think the idea of the tattoo is awesome.<br /><br />Doing nothing doesn't always help, but a person needs to have time to grieve.pohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00711119384786965311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-77215870496212299462009-09-15T16:30:16.158+02:002009-09-15T16:30:16.158+02:00Thinking about you lots and lots. Time, this is g...Thinking about you lots and lots. Time, this is going to take time. Any chance we can drop a meal off for you and your guests? joannemc@mweb.co.zaJohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17266224262968605361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-70535774351547694352009-09-15T15:33:18.304+02:002009-09-15T15:33:18.304+02:00*big hugs**big hugs*Janine / Being Brazenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05238202392512794465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-78934753336172141802009-09-15T15:17:48.603+02:002009-09-15T15:17:48.603+02:00I recommend the siamese kitten. Artsy, beautiful, ...I recommend the siamese kitten. Artsy, beautiful, loud and they never get chubby. <br /><br />Also, when people ask you how you are doing, you can give a stock answer "some days are better than others, today is a good day" and then, if they really want to know, tell them. <br /><br />My heart hurts for you Caz. And I am so honored that you are sharing your feelings here. <br /><br />And yes, one of the reasons I am who I am is because I want my children to be proud of me. <br /><br />hugs to you.Mrs. Hallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15360433416733092249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-59303032425774213812009-09-15T14:40:59.035+02:002009-09-15T14:40:59.035+02:00I have always wanted a big fat orange kitten, who ...I have always wanted a big fat orange kitten, who hated Mondays and loves lasagne I could call Garfield. A friend of mine acidicice lead me to your blog, and I know I am a stranger but I wanted to extend my sympathy to you losing something so precious must be nothing less than hell. You are in my thoughts and I wish you lots of blessings to come.Leebeesahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12469133948502402977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29991554.post-87494481197859397482009-09-15T14:40:15.543+02:002009-09-15T14:40:15.543+02:00Babe. You're doing splendidly. PLEASE contact ...Babe. You're doing splendidly. PLEASE contact me if you need to talk, vent, cry, scream, anything. Even if you just want to be quiet. Send me a blank e-mail.<br /><br />EVERYTHING you do now and feel now is normal. It's not going to go away for quite some time. I still cry for my baby despite having a new one inside me. Don't beat yourself up about anything you feel. Allow yourself to grieve, as long as it takes.<br /><br />You will make your daughter proud in your strength and resillience. You are mommy to an angel and she will always be there watching for you.<br /><br />The tattoo is an awesome idea. I was about to get mine done when I found out I was pregnant again.<br /><br />Go and read this, it will hurt and make you cry...but in some ways, it will help:<br /><br />http://www.acidicice.co.za/?p=170acidicicehttp://www.acidicice.co.zanoreply@blogger.com